I told her that there was no good reason for them to break up. They broke up over something very stupid and petty.. over he-said, she-said, i thought, i heard bullshit. fuck what he said. fuck what she said. Fuck what you thought & fuck what you heard. If you have NO SOLID PROOF that someone is cheating on you or lying to you -why the hell would you break something thart ISN’T broken? You guys get into an argument, okay, after a while, you’ll be way past that argument [if you’re able to solve things, which you’re supposed to be able to] -Arugments are nothing compared to the worst things that can happen. They don’t understand that. Don’t claim you’re so in love but be so quick to cut someone off and move on. It doesn’t work like that. I’m not an expert in relationships but it’s common sense. I told her to do what I’d do. You have a problem? Mention it. But don’t mention like I would..I have a bad habit of coming off very strong and aggressive, only because I want my answer, so I told her to just let him know you aren’t trying to start an argument, that you just want to speak to him whether it’s through text, phone, or in person. I told her to let him know you love him and you’re always here for him. She didn’t listen to me -_- Now look, they’re going through this break up for absolutely NO REASON. If he cheated, okay good reason. If he constantly lies, okay good reason. But breaking up bc of your thoughts is the dumbest thing yet. Don’t let your thoughts fuck up your future with someone - your thoughts are just thoughts. Just like I have crazy thoughts, I only have thoughts because I’m afraid of getting hurt and I’m also so used to guys lying about either the dumbest or real personal shit (like having cancer, parents dead, siblings dead- I found out they were all lies) and fucking me over, which is why I expect for it to happen again but does that mean I’m gonna break something that’s not broken? No.
I just don’t understand them one bit. I help and help, their relationship has affected me very much.
Bottom line: If you love each other as much as you say you do. If you two are in love as much as you say you’re in love - I believe you can get through any and EVERYTHING together. Cause you know at the end of the day, you will always have arguments, it’s not all the time you’ll agree/disagree on the same things, and there will be times when you just want to be left alone. It’s apart of being in a relationship and committing to someone! -sigh- what’s so hard about that?
